The Milne/Smeed Connection

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Thinking of Mum

Tomorrow is the 100th Anniversary of the birth of my dear Mum. She has been gone for almost ten years and we will always miss her very much.

Doris Elizabeth Smeed was born in Walton on Thames, Surrey on 3 February 1919. Bet was the eldest child of Charles Smeed and Frances Tester Smeed. On 14 November 1942 she married Canadian soldier Charles Wesley Milne.

Bet and Charlie had two daughters. Jane was born in England and accompanied her war bride Mum to Canada in 1946. Elizabeth was born in Listowel in 1951. Bet and Charlie doted on their granddaughter, Vanessa, born in 1967.

Charlie died in 1971 and about ten years later Bet returned to England for almost twenty years. During that time she often spent the winter months in Almeria, Spain with daughter, Elizabeth, who resided there. In 2003 Bet returned to Canada, first to Toronto and then to Belleville. When Elizabeth returned to Canada and also settled in Belleville in 2005, Bet was happy to have her family close again.

In her last few years Bet’s mobility was limited and she lost her sight to macular degeneration. This meant she could no longer do her cryptic crosswords or read but she was able to listen to the tv and to her extensive Doris Day music collection.

On 3 February 2009 Bet celebrated her ninetieth birthday. She passed away on 14 September 2009.

Thinking of you on your 100th, Mum.

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Welcome, Daphne!

Allison and Nick McCabe wish to announce the arrival of their daughter, Daphne, who was born on Friday, 12 October. Theo and Poppy are excited to have a new sister.

Proud grandparents are Ron and Bev Milne and Dale and Cathie McCabe.


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James Millen (1856-1923)

An Exciting Discovery!

My great great grandparents, Charles Milne and Elspeth Ross, came to Wentworth County, Ontario ca 1846 from Aberdeenshire, Scotland. They had one daughter and seven sons… some of the children were born in Scotland and some in Wentworth.

Charles died in 1856 and Elspeth remarried about fifteen years later and lived well into her nineties. Their daughter, Margaret, married and eventually moved to Kinross, Michigan. Four of the sons remained in Ontario and three sons (Robert, George and James) moved to Michigan.

For years I have searched without success for the three sons who migrated to Michigan.  This week, thanks to DNA matches with some distant cousins and some further research, I have found James Millen.

He was originally James Milne. My branch of the Milne family pronounces the name as Millen and I often find it spelled that way in records. James obviously decided to adopt that spelling as it is found on all his Michigan records and those of his children. 

The breakthrough happened as a result of me checking the Ancestry trees of some DNA matches. This led to a copy of James’ death registration which gave his parents’ names as Mr. Millen and Elspeth Ross. Her name leapt off the page at me!

I am always sure to check spelling variations of names so I’m sure I must have come across James before in my searches of Michigan records. However, without the DNA matches and the death certificate I couldn’t be sure of his identity. Now I’m hoping that contact with some of his descendants might lead to his brothers, Robert and George. The search continues…

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Cheryl Ingrid Petterson Levesque

Ingrid Petterson was born in Oakville, Ontario on 2 June 1945. She was the daughter of Gustaf Josef Petterson and Frances Elizabeth Milne.

It is with great sadness that her husband, Maurice, and her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren announce the passing of Ingie, peacefully on August 13, 2018 at Campbell House in Collingwood, Ontario.

Ingrid’s brave fight with ALS showed her spirit and courage to the end. “Loss is never easy, although we cry because we miss her, the smiles thinking of the memories outweigh those tears.”

A celebration of life will be held on Saturday, November 3, 2018, from 1:00 to 4:00 p.m. at the Recplex, 1724 Mosley Street, Wasaga Beach, Ontario.

Memorial donations may be made to the Campbell House in Collingwood.


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Rebecca Cromer Johnson McArthur

52 Ancestors Week 3 – Longevity


Rebecca Cromer Johnson McArthur

Rebecca CROMER (?) was born in County Kilkenny, Ireland on 10 May 1807.

She lived a long life in three countries, married and was widowed twice and raised three daughters mainly on her own in what must have been difficult circumstances.

The (?) follows the name Cromer because although it appears as Rebecca’s maiden name on one of her daughter’s death certificates no record of the surname Cromer can be found in Ireland at the time in question. The name may have been mispronounced or misspelled on the document. This has led to difficulty in tracing Rebecca’s early life and her ancestors.

It is not yet known when Rebecca left Ireland, however, by 1845, Rebecca was married to William JOHNSON, a seaman, and living in New York City.  They attended First Mariners’ Church which was located on Roosevelt Street on the Lower East Side of Manhattan. William and Rebecca probably lived in this area whose proximity to the docks and the notorious Five Points district would make it a none too desirable location for raising a family.

Nevertheless, the baptismal register of the Reverend Henry Chase of First Mariners’ Church, New York shows that William and Rebecca’s daughter, Mary Elizabeth, was baptized on 6 May 1845 and daughter, Catherine, was baptized on 30 September 1847.

At some time before 1850, Rebecca became a widow for the first time. Rebecca and a new spouse, Daniel McARTHUR, also a seaman, were in Ontario in 1851 when their daughter, Agnes Rebecca, was born. The growing family has not been located in either the 1850 U.S. Census or the 1851 Census of Canada.

In the 1861 Census of Canada, Rebecca and her three daughters are living in Wentworth County. Daniel is not in residence at the time. He died on 15 May 1862 and Rebecca became a widow for the second time.

Daniel’s will in 1862 refers to Rebecca Johnston, not naming her as his wife. He leaves her $10, a dark grey cow and one half of his bedding. He also leaves Mary and Catherine Johnston $10 each. To his daughter, Agnes (no surname given), when she reaches the age of 20 he leaves his land, $100, and all other possessions.

The wording of the will and the bequests suggest that Rebecca and Daniel never actually married even though her tombstone refers to her as “widow of Daniel”. The fact that Daniel is recorded in the will as a seaman like Rebecca’s first husband, William Johnson, suggests that they may have met in New York City.

Daughter Agnes married Henry Quillman and the couple resided on the farm that had been left to Agnes. Daughter Mary Johnson married William Wallis and that couple moved to the Stoney Creek area. Daughter Catherine Johnson married William Milne. Catherine and Billy lived in Millgrove until about 1879 when they moved to Elma Township in Perth County.

According to census records from 1871 to 1901, Rebecca lived with Agnes and Henry until her death which occurred on 14 September 1902. The 1901 census provided Rebecca’s birth date of 10 May 1807 and the age of ninety-three. When she died the following year, her obituary in the Hamilton Spectator and the official death registration both state Rebecca’s age as ninety-seven. The Memorial Inscription says she was 98. Whichever of these ages is correct, the Spectator was right in naming Rebecca as one of the oldest members of her community.



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A Favourite Photo

52 Ancestors In 52 Weeks

Week 2 – Favourite Photo

I chose this photo because it is the only one that I have of our whole family unit. We have many family photos but it seems that one of us was always out of the frame behind the camera. This photo was taken in the fall of 1955 by my cousin, Ida Milne, from Fort William. She dropped in to surprise her aunts and uncles in Listowel while on a trip with a friend. I vaguely remember her visit but I didn’t actually see the photo until I went on a return visit  in September 2000. Ida’s mother, Aunt Dorothy, had prepared a package of photos for me and this was among them.

Not only is this a photo of the family… Mum, Dad, Elizabeth (age 4) and me (age 10), it is a reminder of our home as it was on that day. We don’t have many indoor photos from that era. Usually we went outdoors to take advantage of daylight.

The house was one of the many “wartime” houses built for returning veterans in the late 1940s. We are sitting in the corner of the sitting room with the kitchen in the background. Visible are our original Frigidaire refrigerator and the buffet of the dinette set my parents bought when we first moved into the house on Jefferson Street.  On the left side of the photo is the telephone… no dial,  just an operator on the end of the line asking “Number, please?”. The phone sits on a table that I still have in my possession.

Mum smiled for the camera; Dad was his usual reticent self; I looked rather serious with my hair pulled back in a severe ponytail; Elizabeth, cute with her bangs and wearing a dress, seemed like she wasn’t too sure about having her photo taken. Great memories to have, thanks to a surprise visit all those years ago.



Bet, Charlie, Jane and Elizabeth – Fall 1955